How to Make Out With a Guy (10 Effective Tips)

I’m sure we all know
how to make out with a guy, but do we know how to do it well. That is a
completely different matter. Knowing how to make out well with a man is crucial
if you want to turn him on and keep him by your side.

Getting him hot under
the collar can actually be more difficult than you might think. So, I have put
together this article to shed some light on how you can make out with your man
like a pro. Just follow these ten effective tips and you will be good to go.

How you should prepare
first.

There are a few things
you can to prepare yourself before you pounce on your man. So, let’s start by
talking about the basics you should have nailed before you get to locking lips.
Once you have made sure that you can master these things, you will then ready
to move on to reading the top ten effective tips and making your man lust over
you like never before.

• Ensure that your breath is smelling minty fresh. 

This is one of the
most crucial things you will need to make sure of before you go anywhere near
your guy. No one wants to make out with someone that has bad breath. If you are
at home, nip to the bathroom and give your teeth a quick brush. If you are out
and about with him, it might be a good idea to carry some mints or mouth spray
with you.

• Add a bit of perfume or body spray.

Men love sweet smells.
So, it might be a good idea to put a little bit of perfume or spray some body
spray over you before you start to get close to your man. Do not overdo it,
just add a small amount of sweet scent. Overpowering smells will have the
opposite effect.

• Avoid wearing too much lipstick of lip-gloss.

If you are wearing
makeup, that is fine, and it can be nice for your man to know you have made an
effort with your appearance. However, I don’t advise you to wear too much
lipstick or lip-gloss. If possible, don’t wear any. Not only will the sensation
of it not feel nice on his lips, but when the make-out session starts to get
really steamy, your hair could get stuck to your lips or your lipstick will end
up all over his face.

• Be wearing your sexiest underwear. 

If you follow all of
the effective tips on how to make out with a guy in this article, the chances
are that it will turn into some passionate lovemaking. So, you want to be
prepared for this if it happens. Even if you don’t end up having sex, his hands
will most likely roam while you’re making out, so it would be nice for him to
feel lacy and silky underwear. Pick out your favorite sexy set and you’re good
to go.

The 10 effective tips
you can use when making out with your guy.

1. Find a comfortable
and sexy position.

To fully enjoy the
make out and allow it to get up to a hot and steamy climax, you need to be in a
comfortable position. I would say that the best make-outs happen when both of
you are sitting or laying down, perhaps on a sofa or a bed. However, it can also
be really hot to make out with your man pushed up against a wall. Whatever you
do, do not stand awkwardly or be in a space that allows little room for
movement.

Whatever position you
decide to start making out with your man in, make sure you can stay there for a
while. You want this make-out session to last a while. If you know or think
that you will be having sex after making out, it can be really useful to do it
in the same place that this can happen. There is nothing worse than feeling
like you’re both ready to rip each other’s clothes off and then having to stop
and run-up to the bedroom. It should all run smoothly, without interruption.

2. Start slowly.

One of the most common
things people do wrong when they are making it is that they move too fast. You
need to start off slowly. If you start off slowly, you can always increase the
pace. However, if you start off at a fast pace, it might seem like it is all
coming to an end if you then decide to slow down.

So, you can start
making out with him by giving him a slow and long open-mouthed kiss. This will
then become deeper if you give it some time. When you can tell that your man is
craving your tongue on his, then it is time to pick up the pace. You can then
start to work your tongue into his mouth. Once again, move gently when you put
your tongue into his mouth, don’t force it in – you will know when it is the
right time. You should never feel like you are making a lot of movement with
your tongue. You don’t want to act like a washing machine. Use your tongue
sensitively and it will increase the sexual tension between you and your
partner. 

You should never act
like you are in a rush when you are making out. Savor the moment and take it
slow.

3. Use your hands.

Men love it when you
touch them. Also, making out is so much more than just kissing. You are trying
to completely rev this man up and get him excited for you, so you need to
incorporate more than just your mouth into the equation. An easy way to do this
is to use your hands. You can do whatever feels the most natural for you but
remember that the main aim is to make him feel as turned on as possible.

Where you touch your man depends on how far into your relationship you are, and what you feel comfortable with. You can simply wrap your arms around his neck and massage his shoulders gently if you want to be quite discreet, but still, make him feel good. You can also play with his hair if it is long or run your hands over his head.

If you know that your
man likes to be dominated, it could be a real turn-on for him if you touch and
grab his face, bringing him into your kiss. If you are very comfortable with
your man, you can even rub your hands around his groin area or stroke his penis
under his jeans.

By touching him on
other parts of his body with your hands, you are signaling to him that you are
ready for something more. You want him.

4. Tease him.

Men want to have it
all easy, but they actually feel more passion for something if they have
glimpses of it. Even if you have been together for a while or have had sex
before, you can still tease him. It’s really simple to tease your man while you
make out. All you need to do is pull away from kissing him and touching him,
flash him a smile or giggle a little bit.

By taking your lips
and hands away from him for a little bit, you have given him time to miss your
lips and your hands caressing him. He will want you back straight away, but
don’t let that happen. Play around with him. Make him work for your kisses.
Most likely, he will grab you back and start ravishing you. It will make you
feel great to know that you have such a strong hold over your man and he craves
you on him.

5. Use your body.

We’ve covered using
your hands, and you might think that it would have stopped there, but it
doesn’t. You can really turn on your man by using your body when you are making
out with him. There are many ways in which you can do this, but my favorite
method would have to be pushing him onto the bed/sofa and straddling him. By
putting your legs either side of your man’s body, you have all the control. You
can then start kissing your man again, but this time, you will have to lean
down to his face. This, therefore, gives him a great view up your top which can
be a real turn on – you are giving him a glimpse of what he might be having
later.

While you are
straddling your man, you can also start to grind slowly on him, as if you were
riding him. He will feel like he is having sex with you and this will obviously
turn him on to no end and you can be sure that his penis will get hard for you.

If you are less
confident to get on top of your man, you can pull him on top of you and let him
take control. You could also rub your breasts up against his torso and grab his
ass.

Another good way of
turning your man on, which will also definitely turn you on is getting him to
touch your body. You can guide your man’s hands to anywhere you want him to
touch. For example, you could place his hands on your ass for him to squeeze,
or you could bring his attention to your breasts.

If you are very
comfortable with your man and you know you are going to have sex with him, you
can be really naughty and turn it up a level. This will only really work
smoothly if you are wearing a dress or a skirt. However, all you need to do to
make your man go crazy is guide his hand slowly across your body, then guide
him to your vagina. You will most likely be wet at this point, so you can
physically show him how excited he is making you.

6. Kiss other parts of
him, not just his mouth.

You can explore other
parts of his body with your lips that will make him feel amazing. Our necks and
ears are really receptive areas that can turn us on quickly. So, why not start
there? You can slowly kiss down from his mouth and find yourself on his neck.
You can add a little bit of tongue into the mix and lick your man’s neck
slightly. This could drive him crazy.

When it comes to ears, some people might find it strange because they don’t understand that it is a sexual area, so don’t focus on it for too long if you’re unsure about it. However, all you need to do is gently bite his ear lobe or blow your hot breath into his ear.

You could also take it
a step further, if you are ready, and take his shirt off. Kiss all the way from
his mouth down to the top of his groin area. He might think he’s got lucky
already, but you can keep teasing him by kissing all around his penis, but not
giving it any attention – yet.

7. Be vocal.

This point can be
explained in many different ways, it all depends on how you are comfortable
with using your voice. If you are not planning on having sex and it’s just a
cute make-out session, you can stop every so often and have a quick chat with
each other. Do not talk about mundane things. Talk about how great this is
making you feel and ask him how he’s feeling.

If you are feeling a
little more comfortable, you can incorporate some moaning in there. A great way
to moan and turn him on (more) instantly would be to put your mouth right next
to his ear and gently moan while you are grinding on each other or his hands
are going all over your body.

If you want to spice
things up a little more, you can use dirty talk to make him beyond excited. For
the most effective dirty talk, you should whisper things in his ear. You can
say whatever you think will make him turned on. You could say things like, “I
want to do so many naughty things to you right now” or “I just want to rip your
clothes off and have you inside of me”. You can go as graphic and dirty as you
like, but don’t just attach yourself to his ear. As much as he will enjoy you
whispering your deepest fantasies to him, he will also want your lips locked on
his.

8. Use eye contact.

Don’t only use your
voice to communicate with your man. Eye contact is one of the most intense ways
of communicating with someone silently. It will really get your man going if he
can see in your eyes that you want him or/and you are enjoying yourself.

Whilst you are kissing
him or grinding on him, make sure that you lock eyes with him. Don’t look
anywhere else, because it will prove to him that he is the only one you are
focusing on right now. He will more than likely stare right back into your
eyes, and you can create such deep sexual tension through a simple stare.

Eye contact can take
things from zero to one hundred really fast, but it is one of the things that
we all sometimes neglect when we are making out. So, don’t get too occupied
with his body or his mouth, because you need to make sure you don’t forget
about staring into his eyes. Eye contact during a make-out will not only
intensify the sexual connection, but it also provides a deeper romantic
connection between the two of you.

9.  If you need to take a breather, just do it.

Making out with
someone actually takes a lot of energy out of you and can leave you feeling
tired or hot and bothered. If you need to take a break during your make out,
just do it. Your man might start looking slightly disappointed, but all you
need to say is that you’ll be back to him in a few moments and that you need a
little breather to regain your composure.

He will actually
probably appreciate the fact you have stopped for a little while, so he can
take a break too. A good idea before making out with someone is to ensure that
you have a glass of water nearby, so you can easily stop and have a drink
without leaving your partner’s side. If you don’t want to kill the mood too
much, you can still talk to him or tease him. You can do this by sitting a
little bit away from him, and when you are drinking your water or just simply
catching your breath, you could rub his crotch area gently with your feet or
keep one of your hands running up and down his chest.

The little break that
you have both just had might actually make it all much hotter when you get back
to it. You have both been given a chance to recharge, and you are now ready for
an even steamier round two.

10. Make sure it is
never monotonous. 

Every single make out
session you have with your man should be different in some way. No one wants to
have the same moves repeated over and over on them. So, you need to make sure
that you are constantly spicing things up and surprising him. Of course, this
is his responsibility too, but if you feel like it’s all getting a little too
predictable you can take the initiative to heat it up.

The first thing you
could do to spice things up would be to change the place in which you normally
make out. If you constantly make out on his bed, why not spice things up a
little more and start arousing him in his kitchen? As long as no one is in, if
things go further you can have him there and then. That is hot.

If making out always leads to having sex for you and your partner, it might actually be a fun idea to not let it go that far. Making out should not just be a type of foreplay. People should make out because it’s playful and fun to arouse each other, with no expectations of sex. So, you can tease your man by making him hot under the collar, but then leaving him after the make-out session comes to an end. The next time he gets his hands on you, he will give you so much pleasure you won’t know what hit you.

Important note – you
should never feel pressured to do anything.

I feel like it is
important to add in that making out with someone does not mean that they can
pressurize you into doing anything with them. In this article, I have spoken a
lot about making out before sex because I assume that if you are reading this,
you are probably past the stage of now knowing how to kiss. So, I have spoken
about making out in terms of making it better and sexier. 

If you are comfortable
having sex with your man after making out with him, then that’s awesome.
However, you do not owe the person you’re making out with, anything. If you
just want to make-out, that’s awesome too. You should always feel comfortable
and safe in a sexual situation. If at any point during a make-out session you
feel uncomfortable, stop it.

Conclusion

I really hope that
this article has taught you a few new tips, which will help you to have better
and steamier make-out sessions with your man. Now go and get using your new
knowledge! Be safe and enjoy it.

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