37 Undeniable Signs That He Loves You

Men can actually be
really complicated, especially when it comes to them actually telling you that
they love you. They might be throwing you mixed signals because they are scared
of their feelings, or they might just have simply not told you how they feel
yet. No matter what’s going on with him, you are probably dying to find out
whether he actually loves you or not. They are mysterious creatures, but once
you know what you’re looking for, you will be able to tell if your man loves
you, or if he’s just not quite there yet.

So, I have put this article together to help you figure out if he does actually love you, even if he hasn’t said anything to you yet. Many signs can tell you if he loves you or not, and a lot of them will be fairly subtle and simple things that you might have not even picked up on before. Once you’ve finished this article you will be able to tell what your man’s true feelings are and hopefully, it will be the news that you were hoping for – that he loves you.

1. He laughs and
smiles a lot when he is around you.

This is one of the
most obvious signs that your man is in love with you. He will smile because he
is clearly happy around you, and it’s showing on the outside. Everyone smiles
when they are around people they like, but his smile will be different around
you. He will light up when he is around you. His smile will beam when he sees
you, and he won’t be able to wipe it off. He is thrilled by your presence and
it’s showing.

He will also laugh at
your jokes (even if they aren’t great) and will giggle at pretty much
everything you say. He will not only want to make you feel like you’re funny
but subconsciously he will probably giggle because he loves you and is a little
nervous. 

2. He is always faced
your way.

When we love someone,
we want will want to be facing them. So, if your man loves you, he will always
point his body towards you, to show you his full attention. Wherever you are in
the room, even if he is not near you or speaking to you, your man will want to
face you. He’s not only showing you that he is devoted towards you, but that he
is only focusing on you. He is mirroring you, and the mirroring of body
language is also a sign that someone is in love. For example, when you go for a
drink your man might also reach for his or when you roll your hands through his
hair, he will do the same. If you notice that your man is doing this, it’s a
sure sign that he is in love with you.

3. He makes time for
you.

We are all busy people and life doesn’t leave us much spare time. However, when you are in love with someone, you always make sure you dedicate time to spend time with them. So, you will know your man is in love if you know he makes an effort to see you. Even if he has a busy life or works a lot, he will ensure that he creates time for the two of you to spend together.

4. He wants to
introduce you to his friends.

If he is in love with
you, he will want you to meet his friends and become friends with them too. Not
only is it really important to be friends with your partner’s friends, but it’s
also nice for him to see all the people he cares about getting along
together. 

5. He wants to
introduce you to his family.

He will want to
introduce you to his family if he is in love with you. He will be hoping that
someday you will be in the family, so it’s important that you meet them all. He
might seem worried about you meeting them, but that’s only because he really
wants you to like them, and for them to approve of you too.

It’s a big step when a
man introduces you to his family, it means that it’s serious.

6. He always holds
your hand.

There is something
really special about when two people hold hands. It’s a really intimate act and
even if it doesn’t seem like it, it is a huge public display of affection. Your
man will want to hold your hand to not only always be touching you and be close
to you, but it’s also a way of showing that the two of you are together. You
show a united from together, and it feels good.

7. He speaks about the
future between the two of you.

If someone is only
looking to date you for a little while or isn’t that interested in you, they
will never speak about the future. Ok well maybe they will speak about the
future for them, but it won’t include you. When a man is in love with you, he
will constantly talk about the future that you will share together. He thinks
about you in all of his future goals and fantasies, and he openly speaks about
what he hopes will happen for both of you.

8. He prioritizes you.

When someone is in
love, the person that they love is automatically moved up the priority order
for them. You will be at the top of his list, along with his close family
members. He is dedicated to making you his number one, and with every decision
he makes he will prioritize you. He will probably even put you before himself.
This is when you know it is true love.

9. He wants to speak
to you all the time.

When we fall in love,
we want to consume everything about the person that we love, and therefore we
don’t want to go for a long time without speaking to them. Your man will
probably be blowing up your phone multiple times a day, or perhaps the
conversation never really ends. He wants to talk to you so much because he
can’t stop thinking about you and is interested in what you’re doing and how
you feel.

10. He gets jealous of
other men if they try to chat you up.

It’s important for me
to say that even when people are in love, they are not so jealous that they are
controlling. If your man is getting so jealous that he’s angry at you, or he is
trying to control who you are with or what you do then this is really unhealthy
and you should take some time away from the situation to get some perspective
or seek advice.

However, jealousy in small amounts is pretty normal and natural behavior. Your man will probably show his jealousy towards other men that check you out or try to come on to you. He’s annoyed because he wants you as his own, not anyone else’s. You can tell that he is in love because we don’t get jealous of people that we don’t really care about.

11. He misses you when
you’re not around.

When people are in
love, we soak up every last bit of the person when they are around, because
subconsciously we think it will help us to miss them less, if we have a higher
dose of them when we are with them. However, we don’t realize that this doesn’t
work and still inevitably miss them when they are gone.

So, if your man is in
love with you, he will miss you so much when he isn’t around you. He will
always try to delay your leaving by kissing you or trying to entice you back
into bed for example. He will probably text you when you are apart and tell you
how much he misses you. 

12. He wants to
impress you.

Your man will want to
impress you, in the hope that he will impress you so much that you end up
feeling the same as him. He will try and impress you in many ways. For example,
he might make a lot of effort with his physical appearance for you, or he might
take you to expensive restaurants for dinner. He might also try and be
particularly manly in front of you, and always offer to help you with things
you can’t figure out, or fix things that are broken around your apartment.

13. He wants to
fulfill your sexual desires.

Your man will want to
also impress you in the bedroom. He will probably be really nervous at first
that he won’t do a good job, which is the first sign that he loves you. If he
was going to be sleeping with someone he didn’t care about, he probably
wouldn’t be concerned about how well his performance would go, because he would
really only be thinking about it from a selfish perspective.

If he loves you, as
well as being nervous beforehand, he will try to pull out all the stops in the
bedroom for you. He wants to make you feel good. So, you might also notice that
he puts a lot more attention on you than himself, unlike other guys you might
have slept with where no feelings were involved.

14. He’s affectionate
towards you.

As well as giving you
sexual pleasure, he will also want to make you feel good in other ways. He will
be very affectionate towards you, even if it isn’t sexual. For example, he will
brush your hair back off your face, kiss you or just simply put his hand on
your lower back. Any of these small actions of affection prove that he has
serious feelings for you.

15. He wants to know
about your childhood.

When we are dating
someone, we aren’t really interested in, we don’t tend to bother getting to
know them that well. When you are in love with someone, that completely
changes. If your man is in love with you, he will want to know about every
aspect of your life. He will want to know about your childhood and past times.
He will take a lot of interest in the small, personal and cute details of your
life that other people might not be bothered about or even notice.

16. He wants to meet
your family and friends.

This is similar to the
fact that he wants you to meet his family and friends. Essentially, he wants to
meet the other people that you love in your life. He wants to bond with people
that you know and hold close because if he is wanting you to be together
forever, he will need to know these people. He will obviously want to make a
good impression, so he will most likely be nervous before meeting these people.

17. He listens to you,
properly.

Your man will listen
to you if he is in love with you. He will really care about what you are
saying, and he will dedicate a lot of time to listen to you and your problems,
worries or discussion. Unlike other men you might have dated briefly, he will
actually want to listen. He will talk less about himself and will listen more
to you.

18. He’s happier to
chill with you at home than go out.

A man that is in love
with you is one that’s happy to do whatever as long as he is with you. A lot of
the time, he would prefer to chill at your place or his and get cozy on the
sofa or in bed. If you are always going out together, you might miss out on
this chill time. He will probably be happier to be in a place he can cuddle and
kiss you all night long. He will also think that you look really cute with no
makeup on and sweatpants.

19. He tells you that
you always look beautiful.

A lot of men
compliment women, but when they are in love it’s different. There is a
different and more intense and genuine energy around the compliments your man
will give you when he is in love. He will tell you that he thinks you are
beautiful, and you will hear it a lot. When he does compliment you, he will
look at you with such passion and admiration.

20. He loves your
little quirky things.

A man in love with
notice all the individual and quirky things you do, or that you have. For
example, he might notice a certain mole on your body and tell you that he
thinks it’s cute, or he might tell you how much he actually loves the fact you
are a clean freak. Whatever the specifics are, your man will love what little
things add up to make you you.

21. He does you lots
of favors.

Your man will want to
please you and make your life better and easier if he is in love with you.
Therefore, you might find that he does a lot of favors for you if it doesn’t
benefit him at all. He is doing selfless deeds because he loves you so much
that he just simply wants to help.

22. He wants to know
about your goals.

A man in love with not
only want to know how you’re feeling and what you’re up to all the time, but he
will also want to know what your life goals and aspirations are. He might be
looking to see if your goals fit with his, but he could also just be genuinely interested
in what you love and what you want to do in the future. It’s just a bonus for
him if your goals align with his.

23. He compliments you
all the time.

Your man will call you
beautiful, as I mentioned earlier because he really thinks you are. However,
his compliments will run deeper than the surface level when he is in love with
you. You will notice that he compliments you on the way you work so hard, or
maybe that you have amazing cooking skills. He will be complimenting you all
the time, no matter what it is about. Obviously, he might be doing this to make
you feel good, but he is also probably doing this naturally because he really
does think that you have all of these great qualities.

24. He supports
whatever you want to do.

If your man is in love
with you, he will always support you with what you want to do. He will see that
you have a passion or talent for something, and he will back you all the way
until you are where you want to be. Also, a supportive partner is attractive
long-term, so he might hope that you notice that and fall in love with him too.

25. He goes out of his
way for you.

He will put your needs
and desires above his own, and therefore you might notice that he will go out
of his way to help you achieve something. Similarly, he might go out of his way
to see you, especially if you or he lives an especially busy life or live far
away from each other. If he is in love with you, you will notice that he is
going out of his way to make you happy, help you or see you, a lot.

26. It’s lovemaking,
not just sex.

When you have sex with
this man, it is amazing. Even if it isn’t the best sex you’ve ever had, it will
be completely different and the best you’ve ever had in so many different ways.
This man is making love to you, not just having sex with you. You will notice
that there is so much passion, affection, and intimacy when you have sex with
him. This is the real deal, and it’s love.

27. He wants to spend
time at your place, and he wants you to come to his.

Your man will want you
to both spend a lot of time at each other’s places if he is in love with you.
He might want to see what it will feel like if you did live together. Without
realizing, he might be trying to show you what it would be like to have him
around all the time, and hoping that you like it enough to hopefully envisage
the two of you living together someday.

28. He leaves things
at your house.

In addition to always
wanting to spend time at yours, or have you at his house, he might leave things
at your house. You will know it’s serious and he is love with you if he leaves
necessary things like a toothbrush or socks and underwear. He might also
encourage you to leave some things at his house, or clean out some space for
you in his closet. 

29. He opens up to
you.

People only really
open up to those that they fully trust. With love, comes trust. So, if your man
is opening up to you about some really personal things or tells you something,
he has never told anyone else, it’s because he feels like he can confide in you.
Trust me, men only really do this when they are in love with someone because
they are actually very vulnerable beings that don’t want to open up too much.

30. He remembers
things you tell him.

Someone that loves you
will always remember and take note of the things that you tell them, even if
they are small things that you say in passing. For example, you might be
surprised if he takes you on your next date to see a band you told him you
liked three weeks ago in a brief discussion. He is really listening to you and
taking note of the things you say.

31. He wants to
provide.

Wanting to provide is
a pretty natural instinct that men have built into them. However, they will
only want to provide for a partner that they can really see by their side in
the long run. Therefore, if you see that your man starts to provide things for
you without you asking, it is most likely because he loves you and wants to be
in the relationship in the long run.

32. He looks at you
with love.

The way a man looks at
you can pretty much tell you all you need to know. If he is in love with you,
he will look at you with such passion in his eyes. He will look at you lovingly
and admiringly. He is showing you how he feels, without even realizing it,
through his eyes, and I’m sure you will be able to read him like a book. 

33. He speaks fondly
of you to others.

Men don’t normally
speak about women and their relationships unless they are really important to
them. Therefore, if you figure out that your man has been speaking about you to
other people, then that’s a strong sign that he loves you and is taking his
relationship with you very seriously, as long as he is saying good things of
course.

34. His eyes follow
you around the room.

Like I said earlier,
your man’s eyes will be able to tell you how his heart is feeling. However, the
way he directs his eyes can also tell you this. Your man will want to soak you
up, all the time. So, if you notice that even when you are not with him his
eyes are still fixated on you, this is a sign that he has strong feelings for
you. He doesn’t want you to leave his gaze for too long if he can help it.

35. His pupils are
dilated.

The last sign that you
can tell by looking at his eyes is to see if his pupils are dilated when he is
around you. Biologically, when we look at the person we love, our pupils
dilate. So, the next time your man is staring into your eyes, take a look and
see if his pupils are looking rather larger than normal.

36. He mirrors your
emotions.

A very clear sign that
your man is in love with you is if his emotions match yours. For example, if
you are having a bad day and are sad, he will be sad, or if you are happy, he
will be happy too. He is obviously in love with you if he is affected by the
way you feel so significantly that you can change his mood without meaning to.

37. You feel it

Finally, you will be
able to feel it in your gut if your man loves you. Everyone can feel certain
types of energy that surrounds them by looking inwards. For example, if you
walk into a room, you will be able to tell if two people have just fought, even
if you didn’t hear or see anything. As humans, we pick up on things. Our gut
instincts are normally right, so if you feel like he is in love with you, he
probably is.

Conclusion

I really hope that
with the help of this article you are now able to go and see if your man is in
love with you, and if that’s what you’re looking for, then I really hope he is.

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