43 Sex Moves to Surprise Your Man

Are you looking for some amazing new sex moves to surprise your man and turn him on more than ever?

Perhaps your relationship has become a bit stale in the bedroom and you’re hoping to freshen things up? 

Or maybe there’s a special occasion on the horizon and you want to put on one hell of a show for him…

Either way, you’re in the right place as I’ve created an immaculate list of 43 incredible sex moves to surprise and pleasure your man. 

However, before you use any of them, it’s important that you read the next few sentences carefully.

There’s one part of male psychology that is very important to understand – and it has nothing to do with how you perform in the bedroom. 

A deep understanding of this can be the difference between him seeing you as a fun partner or him OBSESSING over you for the length of your relationship. 

I’m talking about the ‘Hero Instinct’. A basic primal instinct that all men harbor.  

Most women aren’t even aware about this, which is a shame because this would solve most relationship problems.

I didn’t have a clue about it…and this is why I struggled to maintain a man’s interest for so many years. 

Once I truly understood it, my relationships became 10x more passionate and secure (you can discover how I learned this by reading my personal story here).

A poor understanding of the ‘Hero Instinct’ is so common. It’s probably scared some men away from you in the past. 

Yet, it’s so simple to learn that you’ll kick yourself for not doing so sooner. 

If you’re looking to make a lasting impression on your man, click here for my guide on understanding the ‘Hero Instinct’.

Once you’ve done that, you can make his head spin with the 43 mind-blowing sex moves I’ve listed below.

Without further ado,
let’s begin. The faster you have learned about these moves, the faster you can
try them out on your man. Some of them will require a lot of practice, but
that’s not too difficult is it?

1. The Plough. 

Let’s jump straight in
with a position that requires strength from both partners.

The Plough comes into
fruition when you lay face down on the edge of the bed and hang your legs off
it. Your arms will be the only thing left on the bed, and you should prop
yourself up and support your body weight with your elbows. Your man will be
stood behind you penetrating you.

It’s basically like a
much hotter but much harder version of doggy.

2. Splitting Bamboo.

This position isn’t
too difficult, and it leaves you with hands-free deep penetration.

Lie down on your back
and put on of your legs stretched out of the bed, as you would in classic
missionary. Then, with the other leg, put it on your man’s shoulder. He will
then straddle you and start to penetrate.

Your hands are free to
give yourself a little extra stimulation to yourself or to touch your man with.

3. The Padlock.

This is the perfect
position to have your man anywhere but your bed – a big turn on for both of
you.

You need to sit high
up, so it could be on the kitchen cabinet or a desk. Lean back and open your
legs wide. Support your body weight with your arms if you feel unsteady. Your
man will stand in front of you and will enter you standing.

For a more intimate
experience, you can wrap your legs around the back of your man’s waist. For
deeper penetration, check out the next position.

4. The Erotic V.

This position is very
similar to the padlock position but allows for deeper penetration.

You will need to be
sitting on a tall piece of furniture again. If you have already used the
kitchen cabinet or desk, then why not try the washing machine or the dining
table?

Then, you need to lift
your legs high up and rest them on your man’s shoulders. He can grab your bum
from underneath and move your body in time to his movements.

5. The Reverse
Cowgirl.

This position is very
similar to you getting on top and riding your man, but with an exciting twist.
If you’re not too comfortable going straight into a difficult position, this
can be a good first step to take if you are wanting to surprise your man.

Your man will need to
lie down on his back, and you can then get on top of him. The difference with
normal cowgirl is that you will then turn around and be facing the other
direction. He will get a great view of your ass bouncing up and down on him.

Now, it’s all in your
control to get moving. Don’t worry though, if you get tired, you can switch to
the 69-position. We are going to speak about the 69-position next.

6. The 69.

Even though this is
not technically a sex position, it is still a great move that will surprise and
impress your man. It’s a great way to enjoy intense foreplay, right before you
dive right into another position to have sex.

All you need to do is
get on top of your man and turn around like you are going into the reverse
cowgirl position. Then, shuffle your legs back towards his head, so that your
vagina is now resting on his face. Lower yourself and your mouth will come to
his penis.

This is a great way
for both of you to have foreplay at the same time. So, enjoy the sensations of
him eating you out while you give him a blowjob.

7. The Side
Saddle. 

This position is
relatively easy but does require some strength from you to hold your body
weight.

Your man will lie down
on his back with his legs fully stretched out. You will then climb on top of
him and choose a side to put your legs. Once you have put your legs to one side
of your man, use your hands on the other side to support your weight. He will
start to penetrate, and when he does, you can open and close your legs slowly
to add some variation.

8. The Ballet Dancer.

This is a great
position if you only have room to stand up. Perfect for a quick steamy session
in the bathroom at a party.

Both of you need to
stand up facing each other. You will then raise one of your legs and wrap it
around the back of his waist. He can then hold your leg, which will help your
balance and his too when he is penetrating you. With your leg that is still on
the ground, you can go on to your tiptoes if you need to – you will have to if
your man is much taller than you.

This is a really great
position and I would recommend trying it out in a public place which is naughty
in itself. But it’s even more naughty because you are both facing each other,
you can see how turned on the other person is becoming, even though you would
have to be quiet.

9. The Scoop Me Up.

This position can be
really intimate and cute. If you want your sex to be more romantic, this might
the position you choose.

You both need to get
into the spooning position. Get him to lie behind you and spoon you. Then,
bring your knees up to your chest a little bit. He can then take you from
behind and start to penetrate.

10. The Lap Dance.

This is a really great position that allows for a tonne of hand usage. Before you start having sex, you might actually want to give your man a lap dance. This will surprise him and turn him on a lot, so he will be ready to enter into you.

Get your man to sit on
a chair or on the edge of the bed. Then, get on top of him and don’t face him,
as if you are also sitting on a chair. You might need to guide him into you
with your hands. After it’s in, you can get going. Both of your hands are free
to do what you like.

I’d recommend either
giving yourself some clitoris stimulation with your hand or rubbing him while
he is going in and out of you.

11. The Crossed Keys.

This is a really easy
position that will still make him go wild over you suggesting it.

You need to lay on
your back on the bed and put your legs in the air. Then, cross your legs. Your
man will be standing at the bottom of the bed ready to insert himself into you.
He should hold your ankles or shins when he penetrates you.

For deeper
penetration, you could put a pillow under your bum.

12. The ‘Ascent to
Desire’.

This position can be
strenuous for the man, depending on how fit he is. So if he needs to stop,
don’t be annoyed with him. Just change the position to one where you do the
majority of the work.

Your man can sit on
the edge of the bed, and you then climb on to him and wrap your legs around the
back of his waist. Then, he stands, whilst holding you. You wrap your arms
around his neck. He will start penetrating you then.

13. The Lotus.

This position is one
of the most intimate that I will be telling you today. If you aren’t sure what
a lotus position is, it’s where you sit up straight while your legs are
crossed. Think of how people sit when they meditate.

Your man needs to sit
in a lotus position on the floor or the bed. Then, you will climb on to him and
wrap your legs around him. You will end up both facing each other and being
very close. He can start to penetrate you from there.

The closeness can give a certain amount of intimacy to this position, so it might be a good idea to keep your eyes locked or kiss each other through the sex while you are here.

14. The Deckchair.

This is one of the
best positions for deep penetration.

Your man should sit
with his legs stretched out and lean his torso back slightly. He can support
his weight with his hands. You should lie on your back facing him – so that
you’re almost mirroring him. Then, put your legs on the top of his shoulders.
You should both be able to feel it pretty deep.

If you would like it
to be deeper, you can add a pillow under your bottom.

15. The Crouching
Tiger.

You should only really
try the position if you know that you have fairly strong leg muscles. If not,
it might be best to practice some other positions before trying this one.

Get your man to lie
down on the bed, with his legs just hanging off the edge of the bed. Then,
straddle him whilst you are facing away. This might seem similar to reverse
cowgirl. However, this is when the tricks come in. It’s time for you to put
your legs into a squat position. Then you can start riding him.

It might help to put
your hands in between his legs, so you can support yourself with contact from
the bed or floor. Also, be careful. You are near the edge of the bed and you
don’t want to fall off.

16. The Eagle.

This is a fairly easy
position, so great to try if you are just starting to experiment with other sex
positions.

You will need to lie
on your back and put your legs in the air. Split your legs open while you have
them in the air. Your man will then kneel at the bottom of your body and enter
you like that. He can hold on to your legs for balance, or to keep your legs in
the spread position.

17. The Bridge.

This is one of the
hardest positions, so it might be a good idea to try this one when you’re
comfortable and possibly more flexible from trying some other new positions.

You are going to have
to tell your man to get into the bridge position. This means that he will first
of all lie-down, then he will use his feet and hands to push his body up and
his head will hang. Then, you will climb on top of him and almost stand over
him whilst you guide him inside of you. You are the one in control here, so
start to ride him slowly.

It is a good idea to
keep in mind that all his blood will be rushing to his head, and this position
is hard to stay in for a long time. So, make sure he knows that he can stop and
relax at any time. If he wants to stop, he can come down from the bridge and
you can change into the cowgirl position very easily.

18. The Acrobat.

This is a position
where your man has access to the whole of your body with his hands, so get
ready for some extra stimulation coming your way while you get penetrated.

Your man is going to
lie on his back, with his legs stretched out. Then, you will lie on your back
on top of him. So, you are both facing upwards. Bend your knees underneath you
and put your arms over your head, letting them rest behind your man’s head.
Then, he can start to enter you.

19. The Dolphin.

This is one of the
easier positions to try, but you might get tired quickly, so take it slow.

Lie on your back and
let your man kneel in between your legs. Then, he will put his hands underneath
you and lift the bottom half of your body off the ground. You will now only
have the support of your shoulders and neck to take your weight. You could arch
your back to make the penetration deeper.

If you have
difficulties supporting your weight, you can put your arms up so that they are
supporting your back. This might take some of the pressure from your neck and
shoulders.

20. The Wheelbarrow.

This is a rather
intense position, and you have to have the strength to stay in the wheelbarrow
position for some time.

You will start by
lying on the floor face down. Your man will stand behind you with his knees
slightly bent. Then, he will lean down and take hold of your legs. You will
then put your hands on the floor and extend your arms. You will then be in the
wheelbarrow position.

However, because
neither of you can guide his penis inside of you at this point, you will need
to have made sure that he is as hard as possible, and you are wet enough.

21. The Amazon.

This position puts you
fully in control, but it is a hard one to conquer.

Your man will need to
lie on his back with his knees bent towards him. This essentially will form a
kind of seat. You will then need to squat down on to this new seat he has
provided and put him inside you. Your feet will be flat on the bed or floor.

For this position, you
need to have fairly strong legs.

22. The Fusion.

This one stands out
from the crowd, I think. It gives you both completely new sensations and
provides him with a great view.

Your man will need to
lie down on the bed and lean up slightly. He will need to support himself by
propping himself up with his elbows. You will then face towards him and start
to lower yourself on to his penis. You can also prop yourself up by putting
your arms below you. Your legs are near his head. You are both facing each
other, which makes it intimate. However, you are too far apart to kiss or
caress each other’s torsos.

He will also have a
great close up view of going in and out of you.

23. The Lazy Man.

This position is how
it sounds – you do all the work.

Your man should sit on
the bed, with his back supported by either the headstand or pillows. His legs
should be outstretched. Then, you should get on top of him and straddle him.
Your feet should be flat against the bed and therefore you can use them to help
you lift up and down while you ride him.

24. The Flat.

This is a really
simple position, but it feels great.

All you need to do is
lie face down on the bed and keep your legs together. Stay flat. Then your man
will climb on top of you and enter you. He will need to guide his penis in, so
you might want to open your legs slightly to allow him easier access. Once he
is in, close your legs again and it will make a tight fit for both him and you,
making you both feel great.

25. Mountain position.

This is almost similar
to what you might imagine the position of scissoring to be like.

Both you and your man
should sit on the bed facing each other. Both of you then need to bend your
knees and spread your legs. You should be mirroring each other. Then you can
edge forward and slowly he can enter you.

26. The Close-Up.

This position is
similar to the ‘Scoop Me Up’ position, but a little more intimate and loving.

You will both need to
get in the position of spooning, but you need to both bend and bring your knees
up towards your chin. 

You will feel locked
into each other in this position and you can push your bum further into him for
a deeper sensation.

27. The Handstand.

This is one of the
most difficult sex positions to perfect. However, if you can do a handstand
then this will be really beneficial!

Your man is going to
stand behind you, while you do a handstand. When you are going into the
handstand, your man can help you by supporting your legs. Then, your man will
hold you around your hips and bend his knees slightly so he can enter you.

28. The Seat.

For this, you will
need to incorporate a chair. If you are wanting to have sex in a public, you
could also utilize a toilet seat for this.

Get your man to sit on
a chair (or preferred object where he can sit comfortably). Then you should sit
on his knee. Whilst you sit down on his lap, you can guide his penis into you.
Your legs will be on the ground, so you can use them to support your movements.

29. The Lowered Doggy.

If you like to have
sex in the doggy position, you will love this.

Get yourself into the
doggy position. So, you need to lie down on your front and push your bum into
the air. Your man will be behind you, ready to enter you. However, this is
different from doggy because you aren’t going to be on all fours. You need to
lower your arms onto the bed, so it is just the bottom half of your body that
will be in the air.

Your man can also bend
his knees and lean over you while he penetrates you.

30. The Basket.

This can be a great
position that will allow you to have some extra stimulation from your partner.

Your man will need to
sit upright on the bed, with his legs stretched out in front of him. Then, you
can climb on to his lap, facing him. Guide your man’s hands to your hips, so he
can control the pace of your movements too.

In this position, his
hands can caress your body freely and you can kiss. His eyes will also be at
the level of your breasts, so he can enjoy seeing them bounce around or kiss
them.

31. The Arched
Cowgirl.

If you like cowgirl
but want deeper penetration, this is the position for you.

Your man will need to
lie down on the bed. You should mount him like you are going into the cowgirl
position. However, you need to put your arms behind you, either side of his
legs. Then you can lean back and arch yourself. This will allow for a deeper
feeling for both of you.

32. The Squat
Challenge.

Don’t read this wrong,
this is not a fitness test. Well, maybe it is.

To get into position,
you need to get a chair or stool and stand on top of it. Then you need to
squat. Your man will be behind you and can pull your hips a little further
backwards so that he can enter you.

33. The Kneeling
Wheelbarrow.

This is a simpler
version of the Wheelbarrow position that I mentioned toward the beginning of
this article.

You need to follow the
same instructions at the beginning. You will start by lying on the floor face
down. Your man will stand behind you with his knees slightly bent. Then, he
will lean down and take hold of your legs. However, he will leave one of your
legs so that you can bend it and use it as support. Therefore, only one of your
legs is fully off the ground. You will then put your hands on the floor and
extend your arms.

This might be more
sustainable than the full wheelbarrow.

34. The Head Rush.

This is a great
position if you love to be dominant, or your man likes being submissive.

For this position,
your man will need to be hanging off the edge of the bed so that his head is on
the floor or hanging towards it. Once he is in this position, you can climb on
to him. Face him and sit on his penis. You can put your legs either side of his
torso, or even on his torso if you are gentle.

35. The Pretzel.

For this position, you
need to be lying down on your back. Choose a side to lean to and twist your
whole body that way. With the leg that is on the opposite side to the one you
are laying one, wrap it around your man’s waist. He will then be wedged in
between your twisted body, straight on.

This a great deep sex
position where you can still make eye contact with each other and use your
hands for extra stimulation.

36. The Bicycle.

This is a great
position to watch some close-up action of him entering you.

For this position, you
need to get yourself to the very end of the bed, lie down and lift your legs
up. Your man will be stood at the bottom of the bed and will hold on to your
ankles to move you in the motions that he wants to.

37. H20 fun.

This position does
require a swimming pool, jacuzzi or the sea.

Having sex underwater
can be one of the most amazing experiences and no one will even realize. For
this position, you need to face your man in the water and look like you are
giving him a hug. Down below, you can just move your swimsuits around a little
bit, wrap your leg around him and slide him into you.

38. The Lazy Susan.

This position requires
you to have sex on the sofa – the more comfortable, the better.

You will need to bend
yourself over the arm of the sofa, putting your head and upper body on to the
sofa and your ass will be in the air on the arm. Your man will stand behind you
and will take you from behind. The angle of the sofa makes for a deep kind of
sex.

39. The Missionary
Position.

So, you might think
that the missionary position might not surprise your man, and you might be
right. However, the missionary position is the world’s favorite way to have
sex. You might just need to know how to do it right. Lie back on the bed and
let your man take you. Touch your breasts, moan, rub your clitoris. Make it
sexy and exciting again.

40. The Mantis.

This position is
really intimate and loving.

You will need to lie
on the bed on your side, facing your partner. Then, bend your legs and push
your vagina towards his penis. Wrap your legs around him. You will then be
cuddling while having sex.

41. The Bees-Knees.

This is a foreplay
position that will surprise your man. It’s also a really easy thing to do in
public toilets if you want to feel a little kinkier.

All you need to do is
get your man to stand in front of you, with his penis out and you can sit on
the floor underneath him with your knees bent, leaning up. Then, work your
magic with your lips and mouth all over his penis.

42. Face-Rider.

This is another
foreplay position, but it is focused on you this time.

All you need to do is
lower your vagina on to your man’s face. He will love the visuals and the taste
of you. This will turn him on because you are taking the initiative to fulfill
your own needs. Let him eat you.

43. Tutor Him.

This is not a
position, but it is definitely something that will make him go wild for you.

If you know that your man is about to walk into the bedroom, strip off, hop on to the bed and start playing with yourself. When he walks in, don’t stop. In fact, keep going. It can be fun teasing him and seeing him get hotter and hotter.

FAQs

Conclusion

I really hope you have
a great time impressing your man with some of these positions and practicing
them to perfection. 

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